Where Scotland leads is England following?

So, is the English legal system actually looking to the Scottish system for inspiration in divorce law reform?

There have been a number of reports in the media recently about the English Law Commission’s  four  year review of “nuptial” agreements and divorce pay outs.

Of course pre-nuptial and post-nuptial agreements have always been binding under Scots Law provided they are essentially fair. There is a long standing history in Scotland of couples regulating their financial affairs after separation by use of registered separation agreements, and pre-nups and cohabitation agreements  are also proving more popular.

The English courts have however not always felt bound by such agreements and can ignore or modify  them in family cases. It is now proposed that divorcing couples in England could set their own terms in a pre-nuptial agreement or decide on division of their assets in a legally recognised post nuptial agreement. The Commission goes further and recommends that divorced spouses should no longer expect financial support for life from their ex . Typically the support should not be paid for any longer than ten years after divorce or until the children reach secondary school age.

The Scottish divorce system has however been curtailing payments for continuing support of an ex-spouse since 1986, and awards of support for life are now very rare and generally the maximum an ex-spouse can expect is three years after divorce. The English Law Commission is now laying  emphasis on achieving financial independence for both partners, mirroring the clean break principle in Scots divorce law.

While the wider debate about Scottish independence is hotting up towards the September referendum, it’s worth remembering that Scotland already has a very different, independent  and unique legal system in this area of law.

Some clients I have spoken with recently have been unaware how different our divorce law is to England and on more than one occasion I’ve had to point out that in Scotland, unlike England, you can’t expect to get divorced first and sort out the finances later. Hopefully a potential disaster averted! But how many residents of Scotland know that when they read the press reports which tend to report on English cases or reform proposals?

Even with the proposed reforms there will still be scope for argument. What may be reasonable for one couple might not be for another. That is where the skills of a family lawyer will still be required. And so it has proven already in Scotland for nearly thirty years.

As specialist family lawyers, we at MTM can steer clients through the complexities of pre-nuptial and separation agreements as well as a host of other family law issues.

A Christmas Crisis?

I love Christmas! The smell of newly fallen snow. Sparkly fairy lights everywhere. Carol singing on my doorstep. Children playing and laughing. Friends and family over for drinks and helping themselves to the plentiful, most delicious homemade fayre laid out beautifully on my table which has been lovingly decorated by angels sprinkling angel dust as they go……..

Ok, ok, that is how I often imagine Christmas! But in reality I don’t think I’ve ever had a Christmas like that – ever! Newly fallen snow means I can’t get the car out the drive, I’m late for wherever I have to be, I’m cranky and the kids are moaning as snow has got in their boots and made their tights wet. Children are usually squabbling over the remote control or which game to play next or who has eaten the last chocolate decoration from the tree without asking. My delicious homemade spread is quite possibly a selection of party offers from Iceland (or the local petrol station) and the angel dust is really just dust as I’ve not had time to clean the house as I’ve been too busy shopping, buying presents, writing Christmas cards and ferrying kids to social event after social event whilst at the same time trying to keep on top of homework, housework and an ironing mountain rivalling the size of Ben Nevis!

So is it any wonder that Christmas is one of the most stressful times of the year for couples where even the strongest of relationships can experience difficulties? If you add in overspending on Christmas presents, general financial strain, unrealistic expectations of the perfect Christmas and bad weather, not to mention over indulgence in food and alcohol then Christmas may not be so merry for some couples after all. That doesn’t even include the slaving in the kitchen whilst others chillax with a sherry or two (or 3,4,5,6,7…..), the lack of time for each other as you’re too busy or just exhausted – and probably best not to mention the arrival of the in-laws!

But, if after all the excitement (or stress) of the day is over, you still feel that there is more substance to the arguments than just Christmas, you may decide to turn your attention to legal advice in the New Year. Statistically, more couples separate in January than any other time of the year. Its really important to get good quality advice from specialist family lawyers if you are thinking of separating, or even if you just want to find out what your options are in the event that your marriage or cohabitation ultimately does go down the separation route. That’s where we come in. Get clear and concise advice before you rush into anything. You might want to consider relationship advice or counselling first. You might think mediation or collaborative law would be the best option for you, and then there’s arbitration to consider too. More information on the possible methods to resolve your family issues can be found on theRIGHTKINDOFDIVORCE.com.

Hopefully you won’t need our services, but if you do, we’re back after the holidays from Friday 3rd January 2014 at 10am. Despite the above, Christmas for many is a wonderful time of the year and from all the staff at MTM Family Law Specialists Glasgow, Merry Christmas and best wishes for 2014.